reset12: I'm at that stage of growth where I realize I've been playing victim. It's a cycle of self-sabotage followed by self pity. I actually will make an appointment to see a friend, cancel it, then complain that I never work on my relationships with my friends. reset12: Pure unadulterated insanity reset12: I see it happening. I know I can change it. I am going to start by working on a chief sabotage technique this morning: getting up at the time I want to and doing something I need to