Self Hate Syndrome Community Group
This is a group designed to offer support to people who believe they are fundamentally bad and deserve to be punished. Here we can learn to stop the unholy war we have been waging against ourselves.
Sometime by the end of today I need to do it cause I was grouchy and not too nice to my sisters dog, I don't want to do it but it must be done cause I need punishment. I'm a failure once again.:(:(:(:(
Teresabhopes
No, you do not need to be punished! You can just be sorry and commit to being kinder to the dog next time. They are resilient creatures and will forgive quickly. Follow that example. Just forgive yourself. Please do not hurt yourself - there's really no need and it will just make you feel worse, not better.
invisible7777
Yes but it's my way of punishing myself in some ways it does help I can't explain cause I don't understand why
stevebhopes
Cutting is an expression of self hate and it will only lead to an urge to do it more and more. There is no satisfaction in doing things which harm us . Please be forgiving towards yourself like Teresa said. We love you and don't want to see you hurt yourself in any way.
invisible7777
Thanks, I did hurt myself but nothing too serious, and I didn't cut I seem to hurt myself in lots ways I just don't care about anything to do with me. I just want to know what it's like to want to live.
invisible7777
Hugs to each and everyone Of you I wish I could take your pains away
stevebhopes
I am glad you didn't cut at least. Please show yourself some mercy. I know what you mean about not wanting to live--I have been in that space many times. Just know that you would be missed if you weren't here.
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