Self Hate Syndrome Community Group

This is a group designed to offer support to people who believe they are fundamentally bad and deserve to be punished. Here we can learn to stop the unholy war we have been waging against ourselves.

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Life?

invisible7777
invisible7777
why in life is everything all a big mess most families fight some more then others
Why do we fight so much with our families my family fights more then they don't it just seems to keep getting worse, but when people live alone( like me) we feel lonely, and want someone ti love and to lOve us
Why is there sO much hurting and saddened people and animals why can't we find happiness , why?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wish I had answers, but you are not alone in the whole family thing. My mom has or had six siblings, only 5 now. She only talks to two and the other 3 are trifiling.
invisible7777
invisible7777
That is sad
Teresabhopes
Teresabhopes
Why is a hard question to answer. I think we have war in our families because we have war in our hearts. The pain we feel inside bursts forth when we are more at ease, such as being with people who have known us the longest. If we could make peace in our hearts, we could heal our pain without hurting others in the process. The only way I know to heal those deep places is to open them to God and let His love pour over everything like a healing oil. It's too hard to heal on our own and it's too much to ask another person to dedicate their life to healing us. We need something greater than ourselves to help us out. I know that is the only way I could make it to where I am today. I still have pain, but it's not overwhelming like it used to be.

If your family fights, choose not to partake but to love them anyway. Be love. The world needs love.
DCUK
DCUK
I CANT SAY INVIS,
THE ANSWER TO [[[WHY]]]!!! ITS SO HARD,
BUT I AM THE YOUNGEST OF FIVE BUT NOW FOUR!!!,
AND MY MUMA NEVER BONDED WITH ME AS A CHILD!!!,
AND ONLY TAUGHT MY SIBBLINGS TO FIGHT AMOUNGST EACH OTHER,
SO LIKE YOU I AM ALONE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO FAMILY,
BUT I THANK MY LUCKY STARS THAT I HAVE A 24 HOUR LIVE IN CARE GIVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,
WHY IVE ASKED MYSELF THE SAME QUESTION MANY TIMES AS OTHERS HERE MUST OF [[[ WHY]]] AM I NOW DISABLED!!! I AK THAT QUESTION AGAIN ,
SO YOU SEE IT ALWAYS COMES DOWN TO [[[WHY]]]!!! WHICH I GUESS HOLDS MANY MANY REASONS...
SO IM SENDING YOU MY HUGGLES N CUDDLES AND LOVE RIGHT NOW MY FRIEND!!!,
IM GUESSING WE SHOULD JUST TAKE LOVE FROM PEOPLE WHO SHOW THEY CARE FOR US!!!
RATHER THAN WAIST TIME ON THOSE WHO DONT! ARE OR TRULY BOTHER WITH US BEING FAMILY OR NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
STAND STRONG BECAUSE LIKE US ALL WE ARE WORTH IT HONEY.