I seem to have mild RA compared to most people. My pain is minimal and manageable. It is the horrible sick feeling and fatigue that never goes away that is knocking me down. I'm tired of fighting it and fighting it seems to make it worse (does stress make it worse for everyone?). Please share your experiences with decision making about work. I am a mid-forties professional at the peak of her hard earned career, but ready to give it all up and be poor for relief.