I started dating this guy a few months ago. He was great super sweet and loving, but has a temper and often will criticize me and how I look if I don’t wear a dress or skirt or “look preppy”. He says I can wear what I want but will complain about it if I do and then get upset when I get hurt bc of what he is saying. He often gets upset if I don’t answer the phone. Even if I text and say I can’t talk. He says I should pick up or call back and say I can’t talk. That would be respectful... what? 

Back the the temper. He will get upset over the slightest thing.. and then scream and call me names (bitch, stupid bitch, fuck you, go fuck yourself, you name it). He will hit pillows, doors, his head and chest. Never me. Well twice now he has covered my mouth when he said I raised my voice. Bc he was scared the police would come. I have told him To stop, he apologizes and says he will stop and wants to change blah blah, but hasn’t. He will take the blame and make sure I know it and promise to change, but I have to help him and stop his anger.  

He also got in a huge fight with his parents and they kicked him out and haven’t talked to him in months

this isn’t healthy, right?