Hope you've been able to let go. It seems like your doing all the right things trying not to think of her. Hope you've healed!

I'm right there with you, I feel like I lost my soul mate, if there were such a thing.

If we all truly knew how to let go, we wouldnt be here.
Its the past that makes us who we are, it the past that teaches us where we want to go.
the people we had in our life were there for a reason, though we may never know why they come and go, but a reason non the less.
Its hard to let go of a love, but you have memories of having a good love.
maybe one day your paths will cross again

I too gave up everything for him, my love for him was most selfless but he's gone !

I too gave up everything for him, my love for him was most selfless but he's gone !

I too went through all that. I gave everything I had to him. Even in all my past relationships, I always give 110% + into it , and they take it and use it and throw it away.
I want to believe that there is hope of a really nice guy out there, like the way you describe of yourself shadow73, but everytime I let my guard down, they hurt me.. I guess all we can do is have hope... hang in there!

The people who care and show it the most are always the ones who get the short end of the stick. Not to sound brash, but from reading your post and having experience in this sort of situation... I'm sure you just treated her too good and ultimately she got bored with it, maybe needed some danger in life? The thing that gets me the most these days is that it seems no one has morals or a heart anymore. It's hard to find someone who you can really connect with. I say, Keep dating other women. It will get easier in time I promise. Best of luck to you!
Value yourself & others will value you :-)

I just recently facing break up too. it's about one month of break up and not contact to each other. We had a great memories but he is not ready for any serious relationship yet. so he asked to break up for better to us. But he did it when he knows he is ready to move on without too much of pain, like having good female friends and possible to become next girlfriend. I was the only girl in his life until he think he might find someone else that is better for him because he is not fully ready for the serious relationship and he still want to date around. I understand it even I am very in love with him and nothing can stop him if he really want to let go of a relationship and start something new.
I still in love with him deeply all the memories still there that I can't seems to move on I know it's hard it's only about one month to me. I have hard time to sleep I will sometimes wake up and have heartache. I need a way to let go and feel better too. and seems the best way is let time to heel it and of course talk to people who cares about your feeling

Not contacting is a good step. The past memories can never be deleted but you can heal the wounds that she have caused you. It just takes time. I am a 200% caring and loving perosn who was caught in several bad relationships. Not healing yet but am seeking support here to move on. Just try to lead your normal life and soon, the one will come along. If it is meant to be, it will be, if not, even when she is around you, it won't last