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thebeachretreat 04/27/2011

I heard something on the news this past weekend where saying four letter words actually relieves pain when you have an injury. I think I'll start cussing when I get a trigger.

http://m.vcstar.com/news/2011/apr/25/pain-relief-may-be-a-four-letter-word/

deleted_user 04/27/2011

Haha - I do that at work all the time. I consider it work induced tourettes! :-)

Seriously though - I really try hard not to curse as it's not very ladylike, but sometimes it feels really good to get a good %$#& out there! :-)

deleted_user 04/27/2011

Oh, so that's why I dropped the f-bomb with pretty much every push with my son's labor!

deleted_user 04/27/2011

Yippeeee! I finally have a legit excuse for swearing like a sailor!

deleted_user 04/27/2011

Ladylike, schmadylike. I've always used language that would make a sailor blush (mostly learned from my mother!) I tone it down for the boards. Always makes me feel better to let loose.

deleted_user 04/27/2011

My mom cussed like a sailor, boy did it feel good when I gave her a taste of her own talk! LOL! I have to agree though, that it is a major release for me as well. Somehow, I feel better?!

deleted_user 04/27/2011

My mom never swpre growing up, when she was mad she called my sisters and I round heads! She is 69 this year, and she can make a sailor blush! Is is a little weird still to hear her curse, but she has earned it!

Myself, I like to curse, but when I hear my teenagers calling each other curse words, I feel guilty. But it still relieves stress to carry on like Yosemite Sam....racking frackin sasifrassin mutton blastin kankin franken.....cartoons taught us to swear!

deleted_user 04/27/2011

My grandmother, who recently passed away at 98 1/2, decided at the age of 80 that she had minded her P's and Q's long enough and just stopped censoring. The look on a persons face when this sweet little old lady opened her mouth and spoke her mind was always priceless :)

deleted_user 04/28/2011

No S***?! Well, I'll be D***ed.
F*** F*** F***

deleted_user 04/28/2011

oops I hit submit tooo soon! Son of a B****!!
the rest is
......F*** F*** !!!!!!!

I feel much better now! :)

deleted_user 04/29/2011

LOL! guys, yea, it does make you feel release. As part of my trying to turn my life around I decided to clean my language up. Began subsituting some words, but man "Fudge!" and "Bullbutter!" is just not as satisfying!!!

playerapr 04/29/2011

It does feels better, it is a release when I swear like a sailor!!! All this anger just comes out in F***s, need to tone it done around the kids!

deleted_user 04/29/2011

"Bullbutter?!!" Is that the 'new' Bulltwinkie? Love it!
LOL

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