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The calm after the storm.........

playerapr
playerapr
After my meltdown 2 days ago things have calm down at home. H still don't want to talk about anything, he wants to "leave things in the past", sometimes he acts like nothing ever happened and keeps going like nothing. On ocassions I found it good, okay we are moving forward but I want to talk about it, I have a million questions and I want answers right now. He don't want to give me answers now but he said eventually he woud tell me. I don't want to dwell on it cause he is at home (and that's also what he says "I'm home.....let's not talk about it") but some part of me needs to know everything. For now things are calm but I know it's not over yet.
Group Founderlisalisa72
lisalisa72
Do you think this might be easier to talk to him about via e-mail after he is gone? Maybe the distance will give him some courage to come clean and tell you the truth.

For now, I'd give him a big smooch, tell him you are going to miss him terribly, and make these last few days the best you possibly can so that he has good memories to take with him. The rest can wait until later.

<<hugs>>
playerapr
playerapr
Hopefully......he is always been really hard to communicate with, to talked about his feelings and emotions so he explains himself better in emails than he does talking. Actually that's how he "confess" to his EA and how he felt about the OW. I think he might be withholding cause even though I wanted honesty it still hurts and I got upset and he said that he wasnt going to tell me anything anymore.