Creative, sees the world from an angle no one else seems to see. Like a cat staring at things that don't seem to be there.
Bizarre humor, most often expressed through great ove notes that are practically undecipherable but sweet and funny all the same.
Heart, huge enough to love someone else's child even while she hated him.
Confidence, something I admire and wish I could borrow from him

And his great ass. That's been a new development. He takes his physical health very seriously, works out every day and in the past couple of years has gone from a buttless wonder to having a fantastic tush. I could watch him walk away for days!

Wonderful Dad- he really is a true co-parent with me. Neither of us do more or less with the kids and he agrees that while they are young a marriage should be child centered. I know not everyone agrees with this but this is our philosophy

Good worker- He does his best at his job while making sure that he keeps his kids first and job second

He is funny. He says some off the wall crap that cracks me up.

Well read, well informed. He reads a lot and pays attention to the news via NPR.

He is attractive (traits are traits be they personality or physical).

He is very helpful around the house. We have a good system worked out over cooking, cleaning, night time kid issues and so forth.

Talented- my H is a jazz musician and teaches his principle instrument privately. He also has very good carpenter skills and is a good wood-smith.

We are of the same political leanings and both very passionate about certain issues: like human rights, environmental protection and education.

Hard worker - always works hard
Funny - always joking
Excellent father - even at our worst he has always been a good father
Good provider - always provide to his
Handy Manny - can fix anything!!!
Smart
Helps in the house and with the kids - you don't find a whole lot of men that help around the house
At least for me - handsome!!!

I feel like I am copying off everyone else's paper but

Great dad- I fall in love with him every time I watch him interacting with the kids.

Hard worker - he is finally learning to not work all the time.
determined/stubborn - once he makes up his mind there is not changing it. That can be a good thing most of the time.

Smart- his mom pulled him out of school in the 9th grade. He went on to get his G.E.D and an associates degree, without any tutoring or catching up.

Funny- he is always making me laugh and smile.

Thoughtful- this is reemerging and it really makes me happy to see.

Handsome- I especially love when he smiles and his eyes crinkle up.

A GREAT Dad - he has raised OUR daugther. he came into our lives when she was three and we've all been together ever since. He is her father and it's nothing I wouldn't say in front of the DNA dad. I'd say it and he'd agreed. Then there's our son, he's 4, and a replica of his father. Our son LOVES his dad like he's candy. It warms my heart. He's always acting silly, laughing, and carrying on with the kids. It does bring me LOTS of joy.

Smart - he's extremely intelligent.

Funny - he's always trying to make me smile

Thoughful - he sends me little emails at work, writes me little love notes and leaves them on my desk. picks me flowers from the yard. he tells our son to tell me that I'm beautiful :)

Loving - he tells me he loves me all the time. if I had to count the number of times he told me in 24 hours, I'd fail. he cuddles me at night, he holds me tight and close and makes me feel safe.

Helpful - he tries to help out around the house as much as he can---doing dishes, washing clothes, keeping the kids in order, working in the yard.

Our son LOVES his dad like he's candy

Awww that might be the sweetest thing I've ever read here. That describes my son's love exactly. My H even gets this special laugh out of little man that I don't get.

My H is a hard working man. He doesn't quibble about finances. He has a keen sense of with an humor. He helps around the house...and the yard....and the garden. He is reliable for the most part. He's a musician and I enjoy listening to him play the guitar...drums...bass..keyboard...the dash of our vehicles...and anything else that can produce sounds. He enjoys many of the same things I enjoy. He is affectionate and gentle. He's more of a friend than a dad to our daughter...which is good in many ways. He doesn't talk about the negative side of others. He lives mostly in the moment. He's both handsome and sensuous...great combination.

Very smart.
A wonderful Dad, he treasures our kids.
Great sense of humor.
Good looking.
Great provider, he works very hard and is very dedicated.
Great cook:)

Great dad- he takes care of our son while I am work, and gets our daughter off to school (I leave the house at 6:15)
Handsome and sexy
Funny- he can always make me laugh
Smart- he knows a lot about so many things, but especially technology
Hard worker- he is the type that likes to get there early and works his booty off all day
Great cook- he is a chef after all! The bummer part is he works at night, so I only get his cooking 1-2 days a week
Good helper- he helps around the house, especially in the kitchen
Loving- he has always called me at least 3 times a day to tell me,

She is goofy and quirky...and I love that!
She has an amazing smile
She a dedicated, hard worker.
She inspires others around her
She can be completely random
She is a selfless lover
She looks at me with the most amazing love, desire, and softness in her eyes
She encourages me and all of my crazy, ideas and schemes
She spoils me!
She has the most amazingly innocent soul
She is protective of me and our daughter
She is a gentleman
She is kind to old people and children.

Great idea. My H is very intelligent. He earned a full academic scholarship to college. He's a hard worker and does his job very well. He's kind, never talking badly about anyone and always willing to help anyone in need. Although he's made mistakes in the past as a father, he does make an effort to show our kids he loves them and is now trying to make up for lost time with them. Putting the A aside, he is a decent and good man. He would never intentionally hurt anyone and always speaks out against injustices. He loves animals and is always touched when he sees a wounded or neglected animal. He tries to donate to charities whenever he can. He is a loving family man who cares about the well being of his family. If we won the lottery, he would absolutely give money to all of our family members so no one is troubled with financial difficulty. When he lets down his wall and lets me in, he's loving, sensitive, passionate. He very handsome, is very sexy and is a giving lover. He takes care of me in silent, yet important ways. He always opens doors for me, he irons my clothes, he never lets me lift anything as long as he's around, he always gives me massages because he knows how much pain I'm always in because of my bulging disks. He is my calm in the storm. He is my sounding board. He is my confidant. He is my best friend. He is my love.

ZNZ: He irons your clothes? Dang, I'm jealous!!!!!!! I love reading everyone's comments. It's amazing how good feelings about my spouse flood over me when I make a list about what I admire about him. I really do need to remind myself of his good qualities, daily!!!!!

thebeach, yep, pretty cool huh? He does a much better job ironing than I do, so I told him the job was his! lol.

He loves me!
He's an awesome cook!
He loves our dog Chloe just as much as I do!
He takes time to enjoy life - whether it's in our back yard or at our favorite sushi place!
He's handsome!
He's funny!
Tells me each & every day that he loves me!

My H is an excellent friend
He is kind and helpful
He's handsome
He's intelligent
He has a great sense of humor
He loves music
He loves his children
Best of all, he loves me!