Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity Community Group
A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.
Hello DS friends, I am afraid that H thinks this is just ok. We have been working hard to repair the damage that occured almost a year ago. Recently traded our old wedding bands in and had a new set made.( I know it's material) I just didn't want to wear a ring that had broken vows with them..
Well anyways, we had stopped counseling a few months ago and I had requested that H seek counseling for hi self , just to see why this happened and how he can prevent this from happening again ( I didn't feel that this was asking too much and requested that he at least go to twop sessions with our counselor befor March 26 , next week when we are suppose to be renewing our vows. I don't want to do this because he didn't go as I had requested. Am I being too demanding ? Why would he be so reluctant to go alone? I just don't get it and I am really hurt that he didn't take my feelings into consideration and go..
Well anyways, we had stopped counseling a few months ago and I had requested that H seek counseling for hi self , just to see why this happened and how he can prevent this from happening again ( I didn't feel that this was asking too much and requested that he at least go to twop sessions with our counselor befor March 26 , next week when we are suppose to be renewing our vows. I don't want to do this because he didn't go as I had requested. Am I being too demanding ? Why would he be so reluctant to go alone? I just don't get it and I am really hurt that he didn't take my feelings into consideration and go..
I am not saying that I am different but because of the A, I see it more from your side because I have made the same request to my W. Most men do not see it thou.
I am telling you this not to defend your H because I do feel he is wrong but in hopes that you can use it to understand. Use this information and find away to communicate to him that it is not a sign of weakness but it is more of away to harden the love that is between you and him so that it is never broken again.