Has anyone had to deal with accepting their spouses answers as to when the affair started and stopped? My husband had an affair with a co-worker that lasted off and on from 05-07. I always thought something was up but my husband said no. I actually thought something years prior to that as well. Anyway, the affair came out after the fact. My husband had an affar with someone else in '09 and that came out a few months after. I questioned him about this what I thought about 05-07 and he said no. We went and were going to counseling and working our way back. In Feb of this year I asked him about it again and he finally admitted it. I heard him tell the OW to not contact him again (they spoke occasionally through business). We are still going to MC and things are much better But.... I'm scared to let my guard down and of being hurt again. I'm so afraid that I'll find out someday that the affair happened before 05 and that he's still been lieing. Any advice? Sound familiar to anyone? If I take my heart out I think o.k. he admitted the affair and we're moving on and really have something good right now so why should the timing matter. I guess it's just the thought of another lie..
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