H in the Army, currently on tour in Afghanistan for a year, left in March. When he left I was emailing him often to keep him udpated on our life back home and to keep connected. He emailed and replied a few times but then he got real busy and stop replying to my emails so I stopped sending him emails. We do chat often, almost daily for about 15-20 minutes. I understand he is in a combat zone and they do work 12-16 hours days sometimes. I'm always the want waiting for his emails, his calls, for him to contact with me to chat. He couldn't get a hold of me to chat yesterday or today and he sents me this email, telling me that he has tried to chat with me twice and I have ignore him, that I was probably getting someones elses attention and that was why I wasnt emailing him anymore That he works 12-16 hours days and since I don't carry my phone around like an extra limb (like I used to) and I don't emailed him anymore that I most be talking to somebody, that he wasn't stupid. If If I get compliments, I tell him, he said that it don't bothers him, I have lost 20 pounds since he left so I get he is jealous. I'm laughing now but I was really upset earlier..........he has a bad fuc^&%$ day and I get the short end of the stick??!!! He did it and now he is afraid I'm going to do it?!!!! I even told him he was an ass&^%$ for what he said to me, that I didnt deserve him lashing out at me, I have never ever give him a reason to doubt me. How easy was for him to distance himself from me, stop calling me and texting me and text and emailed the other OW during the EA but I was "crazy" cause they were "just friends". How easy it is to judge when the shoe is in the other foot!!!!! They can be assh&%$ sometimes!!!!! Sorry....needed to vent!!!!!