Not surprised. Makes me quite irritated to think of the implications of that, especially from the standpoint of recovering from infidelity. Girl, I saw some guy with his wife and kids ogling a lady in wally-world the other day, right in front of his wiife. Made me sick to my stomach, and it was all i could do not to grab a large jar of pickles and hit him in the head with it right then and there. Pickles probably would have been appropriate, too. Mini gherkins. Sorry for the rant, but this has been a recent sore spot with me. Arrrrrgh!

It happens. Just delete the messages and forget about it.

i am sure there are stalkerish people out there trolling the site looking for opportunity.

I got the same request from the same woman. Gave me the willies but then I realized this has happened before and to just delete and igonre it.

LOL! I've never been approached ... should I be insulted? : S

Maybe when you consider what we are going through we seem like easy pickings. LOL. Just delete it. There are weirdos everywhere.

Haha - Lisa - I was thinking the SAME thing?! I've never been approached. :-)

Happened once and startled me. I thought he was just reaching out, then it got a little personal so I closed it out immediately. Yea, I think there are probably some scum bags trolling for people they know are in pain and need a self esteem booster, so they think it's easy pickens as you said. Definately scumbags!!!