I have been suspecting for months and maybe deep inside I already knew of EA due to the constant calls and text messages and his defensive "we are just friends" but I don't think I'm happy I want a divorce. He finally admitted/confess to EA and his feelings for the OW, strong feelings and the fact that he can't stop thinking about her. He is staying in the marriage and "working" on things and cut off communication with her (or so he says). We talk, we have fun together, we laugh, still missing that connection. I will texting and email him and I will say how much I love him and that I hope he can find his way back home but I don't get nothing in return. That makes me angry and sad, am I expecting 2 much? He hardly, if ever sasy I love you, if I say it he will response back but he used to say I love you all the time, before and after work, on the phone and now I just get an "I'll see you later" or "talk to you later". He says he is trying but I want more......how long can you take it? How long without saying those words (yes they are just words) but still is a validation on how he feels. Are my expectations to high or to soon?