Thank all of you DS friends , I'm glad you were all here for me in this past year of Hell. Finally , I wrote my H a letter from the time we had met until now when life turned upside down and in the whirlwind of hurt. I just want to make a suggestion to all that are still on the fence or in the early stages of the painful world of infidelity that discovery was learned this past year, write a good bye to the year 2009 and what you want for the new year in the relationship. Usually H will comment on my letter , this time I have asked that he write me a letter and tell me what this past year has been like for him and what he wants for himself and us in the next year.