It's almost 4 years since I found out dh was cheating and had on and off our marriage. Most of the time I don't think much about it but lately I find myself stressing and everything triggers me. Should I be past this?
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I'm here, y'all. You newbies won't know me, so I'll give a quick intro:My husband of 16 years had a workplace affair. It was an emotional and physical affair. Day of discovery was, oh gosh, was it the 4th or 5th of December, 2010? I don't even remember, anymore! Holidays were rough for a while, but now it's a complete non-issue. Life is good and if things get crazy in December, it's...
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