Tomorrow is our "big" ultrasound-- and I am scared to death. I really used to look forward to dr appts and ultrasounds etc, but after we lost Caroline, all of that changed.
Anyway, I was wondering if any of the other angel moms out there have any advice on specific questions to ask the doctor/tech regarding the results of the ultrasound? I am especially anxious to hear from the moms who have lost their babies to cord accidents.
I am already prepared to ask about cord location (on the placenta) patency and number of vessels in the cord, if they can tell whether it is too long/short and if they can visualize any knots/strictures/ nuchal cords or loops (which I don't even know if they CAN tell any of this). I also thought to ask about amount of amniotic fluid, what position the baby is in (at least for now) and where the placenta is located (anterior vs. posterior).
As I read over this post, I can clearly understand how neurotic I am sounding, but I honestly can't help it. I feel like it is totally MY responsibility to get this baby here alive and healthy and I need to do ALL I can do to cope. If anybody can think of any more questions to ask, please let me know. Thanks!
This one might be so obvious you didn't list it - ask them what gestational age the baby is measuring. Also make sure they check your cervix; I'm not sure exactly what the question is, but I know they're supposed to look to be sure it still looks "right" considering you shouldn't be going into labor any time soon. My doc also took a glance at my ovaries. I'm not sure what she was looking for though.
I hope all goes well and you get some relief and joy from seeing your little baby. :)
Your questions are all valid ones, especially if you have experienced a cord accident in the past. I am an ultrasound tech and we always check the number of vessels in the cord as well as cord insertion. Unfortunately knots are not very easily seen on ultrasound and in fact that is what my little Parker had that led to us loosing him. They don't become too concern about the cord around their necks unless it is at least 2 times around their necks. Even at 20 weeks they still have plenty of room to flip around. As far as length of the cord, we can't measure that. The only way to note whether the cord is abnormal is if it's really short, causing obvious abnormalities. In my 10 + years of clinical ultrasound I have never seen that. We do measure amniotic fluid levels, you will hear it referred to as the AFI, amniotic fluid index. There is a range of 6-20 that is normal. We also check the location of the placenta as that is important especially if it covers the cervix or if it is invading a previous c-sec scar. We also look at the placenta itself and grade it accordingly. As far as looking at the cervix, we look at it's length to make sure that it is not shortening and starting to dilate. We like to see a "long cervix" Some offices include the ovaries but too realize that after a certain point, we won't be able to see them. We look at them in early pregnancy exams to look at the coropus luteum and to make sure there are no masses around them. If you have any more questions, I would be happy to answer them, just message me! One thing, as a tech myself, talk to the tech and let them know your concerns up front and why. If they know where you are coming from, they might be able to communicate with you in a way that will help alleviate your anxiety. Good Luck!
Thank You everyone-- I am obviously still nervous, (I am already awake at 5:00 am) but this has definitely helped. Parkersmom-- thank you sooo much for clarifying what they may and may not be able to visualize on the ultrasound. I have read conflicting reports about what they can see or not.
Ask them for a copy of the report. I just automatically was given one with my angel. The reason I say to ask for it is because too many mothers in the group learned about things that were known about their baby that was kept from them. So just in case they intentionally or accidentally don't tell you something, at least it will be in the report.
At one of my early ultrasounds with this pregnancy, a transvaginal one, both a tech AND a doctor took turns looking in there and told me that everything looked great. Yet I got a call from my OB's office the next day telling me that I had subchorionic bleeding and telling me to take it easy. What was that about? Since you already have the mindset that your baby is your responsibility, I strongly recommend getting a copy of the report.
I hope you go in sometime this morning. I feel so bad that you're scared about it, but I do understand. *Hugs*
Your tech AND doctor should go over all this stuff without you asking...but it can't hurt to have the list of questions to ask. I can't think of any to add! Good luck!
I hope all goes well and you get some relief and joy from seeing your little baby. :)
At one of my early ultrasounds with this pregnancy, a transvaginal one, both a tech AND a doctor took turns looking in there and told me that everything looked great. Yet I got a call from my OB's office the next day telling me that I had subchorionic bleeding and telling me to take it easy. What was that about? Since you already have the mindset that your baby is your responsibility, I strongly recommend getting a copy of the report.
I hope you go in sometime this morning. I feel so bad that you're scared about it, but I do understand. *Hugs*