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Coping with pregnancy after stillbirth

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deleted_user 04/02/2013

So, I have decided not to buy anything for the baby too far ahead. I have a list in my head of things I will need, but will probably get them a couple weeks before she is born. I won't even buy more than one month at a time of prenatal vitamins. I feel like I'm being too negative, but I keep thinking what if. Any thoughts?

MeJustHere 04/04/2013

I don't think you're overreacting AT ALL. I am 21 weeks pregnant and am so scared haha. I just barely started buying a couple outfits. But I can't do anything else. I try not to even talk too far in the future, ya know? It sucks but this is our reality. I try and stay positive as much as I can and I try to not send any negative thoughts out but that's all we can do. You have to do whatever feels right for you even if it's not buying anything right now :).

Good luck & hugs!

deleted_user 11/09/2013

No, you are not being ridiculous! In fact, I am hoping I myself can not worry too much about the future and just go day by day.

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