I finally had to hire someone to do my gardening last year. I will probably need to continue that. I also have someone else clean my house. So you are doing good if you can still clean house! I know we are all different and each have our own battles.

I'm glad you were able to laugh at his comment. Sounds like you are keeping a good sense of humor.

Hi Freelee. I am delighted you can laugh at these comments. I try but mostly they just irritate me. Everyone here 'gets it' which is one of the great things about this site. Best wishes. Autumm

I think sometimes people/spouses "forget" we have a disease. "You don't look sick" has been discussed here before. I try to do everything I can knowing some day I won't be able to. It is a personal goal for me each day. That being said when I get tired or flare that becomes my priority and I get help. I like your attitude of laughing - it helps everyone but helps you the most. I hope you also rolled your eyes ;).

Hi Freelee, Your husband sounds like a nice guy. I try to do what I can everyday. Some days I can do more than on other days. I always need a lot of rest when I do any activity.

Four flights of stairs...that is funny too!

It is always good to have a laugh too.

Best Wishes.

men. lol
have you ever thought about like an indoor garden though?
i looked stuff up in the past and i would like to just never got around to it! lol