Relatively new to the lifestyle, and struggling on where I fit. I’m a single, divorce woman with a grown child. I live alone. Currently dating a married couple who both pursued me. Mostly it was him in the beginning but now she and I are close as well. It’s very loving and supportive. And allows me to still have my lifestyle... but that’s where it becomes tricky. 

Ive got emotional damage like the rest of us, a lot is more realistic.  I’m struggling accepting them loving me and wanting me involved with them. I’m also struggling with the fact that I feel like an outsider meeting up with a team. I’ve tried to figure out how to move past it but my brain seems to circle back. I’ve voiced my fears and they are great at reassuring me that they love me and aren’t going anywhere and have patience with me working through all of this.  

Is is there anyone out there that has any advice? I’m trying not to have expectations or attachments but that just seems unrealistic.  Help?