Polyamory Community Group
A place to discuss living a polyamorous lifestyle - the joys, the challenges and everything in between. Polyamory (a hybrid word -poly is Greek for many and amor is Latin for love - coined by among others Neopagan poet, author, lecturer, and priestess Morning Glory Zell-Ravenheart) means "The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at...
I've been with my partner for a year and half now. But before I meet her I've always had problems with staying loyal to one partner. And I have been committed to her this past year and half but I just feel like I have been missing something like emotional I just feel like she doesn't understand how I am emotional. But I've meet someone at work and she knew I had a girlfriend but we still continue to talk and these past 2 months we have been talking I have catched feelings for her because I feel she understands me emotional and I can see she cares for me. So I have been having this double life when I go to work because I know my girlfriend will go crazy if she found out. So the other day she was looking through my phone and she found our text messages and from there she raised hell. So I don't if this cheating or not and I don't know what to do about my relationship because I want to continue talking to this other girl because I love the excitement and happiness she brings to me. Please help
I KNOOOW the new girls is so interesting and just thinks you are so interesting. She doesn’t get irritated when you leave the bathroom a mess or forget to take the trash out. She is SO understanding.
Oh it’s because she wants what’s not available. You are in the fog my friend.
Try showing your GF you want to be together... date her. People take each other for granted. It’s sad. 70% of the people I know that have left after an affair wish they realized how much better their life was.
Emotional affairs hurt just as bad... if not more. Because it wasn’t just sex.
Try the book,, it’s a quick read (I promise) “how to help your spouse heal from your affair” Linda MacDonald
After you take to steps to heal it, maybe you can address a open relationship. Not any time soon.