Polyamory Community Group

A place to discuss living a polyamorous lifestyle - the joys, the challenges and everything in between. Polyamory (a hybrid word -poly is Greek for many and amor is Latin for love - coined by among others Neopagan poet, author, lecturer, and priestess Morning Glory Zell-Ravenheart) means "The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at...

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Bisexual man in love with man and woman

sbrown73
sbrown73

I am a heterosexual woman in love with a bisexual man who is in love with a homosexual man and also in love with me. Tada...I would like to know if there is anyone in this forum who is in a similar situation and in a polyamorous relationship? I am just curious if this is even possible to pursue successfully. The man I love has asked me to consider being with him with the acceptance that he would also be in a relationship with his male partner. Help, advice, something

LostgirlKXV
LostgirlKXV
I have a somewhat similar situation except that I am in love with another woman that my husband and I met when we were swingers. We had somewhat of a polyamorous relationship and it didn't quite work. Please let me know how your situation works out. There are so many emotions involved when it's more than 2 people no matter what the dynamic of the relationship may be. I'm no expert but I would say honesty about your feelings is best.
Maine_Unicorn
Maine_Unicorn
This can work. But it takes a LOT of candour, open and honest communication, and patience.
I am a bi man, and for the past 16 years have been living with who I now consider my husband and wife.
We've had a LOT of ups and downs. We have recently introduced a 4th as well so there are new challenges.
Have faith. Talk things out. Don't let them fester.
Poly is love. Realize that you can't be 100% of what your husband needs, just as he can't be the same for you.