In a nutshell my daughter and I had to go to Syracuse for the doctors, we stayed at the hotel and we had a blast together. When it got late ( we had to keep her up per her doctors rule) we went to the lobby to have so o.j and some cheerios. She played on her leapster and I wrote in my journal...I found when we removed ourselves from the chaos of the people upstairs, we were more free, they had this instrumental Arabic music on and we were the only ones there...I found myself getting into it, it had a café feel to me. it changed my mood sort of, it was so peaceful I seen my four year old swaying back and forth to the music as she played her game quietly...It was a moment we shared in peace...I found myself setting that moment as my base line in life....as in this is were I want to go when things get to chaotic...so I came home downloaded some music, dimmed the lights, and wrote, my daughter danced and played, and now we make it our before bed routine! It relaxes both of us! Something so small as being in the lobby of the hotel, made an impact on us forever...