I am needing some strategies for coping with my PA husband. Like many of you, I am relieved to finally figure out what has been going on. He is a classic case of PA to the point where he refuses to flush the toilet after he uses it because he knows it bothers me! Are we adults?? I am making an appointment for me to see a therapist in hopes I can get some coping stategies or ways to deal. He is getting more PA as time goes by, and we are newlyweds. Married only one year. I'm afraid the marriage will end if he doesn't get help, but he sees it as I am the reason for everythign, as all PAs do.
My biggest complaints are he sits on the couch while I do everything, and I do mean everything. Cut the grass, clean the house, cook, shop for food, feed the pets, do laundry etc. The on my birthday he gets me a card. Just a card. It's a ridiculous slap in the face!
I'm at my wits end and seriously thinking of divorce. Nothing changes his behavior or attitude. I feel so duped.
i despise my husband so much, his secrets, his moods , lies, porn habit, his silent treament, his always putting everyone and anything else before me. I feel so angry i could scream, i wish him dead and then i feel like a bad person. i feel like i hate him so much, i have this anger that i dont express. he has taken out a mortgage holiday without discussing with me. he just never changes, even...
The world we are living in today is totally carzy. I almost can't believe this is actully happening. With that being said having to stay home and worry about getting sick or getting my loved ones sick is making my anxiety go through the roof. I have tried many things to calm down but they are all just temparary. I feel like I can't get a break. I want to go out and get fresh air, but I get...