I am needing some strategies for coping with my PA husband. Like many of you, I am relieved to finally figure out what has been going on. He is a classic case of PA to the point where he refuses to flush the toilet after he uses it because he knows it bothers me! Are we adults?? I am making an appointment for me to see a therapist in hopes I can get some coping stategies or ways to deal. He is getting more PA as time goes by, and we are newlyweds. Married only one year. I'm afraid the marriage will end if he doesn't get help, but he sees it as I am the reason for everythign, as all PAs do.
My biggest complaints are he sits on the couch while I do everything, and I do mean everything. Cut the grass, clean the house, cook, shop for food, feed the pets, do laundry etc. The on my birthday he gets me a card. Just a card. It's a ridiculous slap in the face!
I'm at my wits end and seriously thinking of divorce. Nothing changes his behavior or attitude. I feel so duped.
Hi new to the group and new to an empty nest. Divorced a long time. Time for a new chapter. I want this to be great. Anyone want to join me...there has to be a way!!!
My son is 14, he has been acting out progressivley since he turned 13. Me and his father divorced 7 years ago. He has been acting out in school being very disrepectful with teachers, has gotten suspended a few times, has been skipping school, he has aid he hates me, has called me out of my name, has raised his hands to me, has threatened suicide. I have done what I can do for my son. I have taken...