Partner's of porn addict's Community Group
This group is for spouses, girlfriends, and boyfriends who have a partner with a porn addiction.Porn addiction can be harmful to the brain and can be a hard thing to deal with, but this group is for not the addict but for the partner dealing with their loved ones with the problem.It isn't hard just for them it can be hard for you too, it harms you emotionally and...
Hi. This is my first post. My husband is addicted to pornography. He won't make love to me but he loves his porn. He knows that I consider it cheating. He just tells me I'm stupid. I ask him why he traded me in for porn and what's wrong with me and he just tells me to "quit being stupid". I can't live up to those fake women in those filthy videos. What am I supposed to do? I spend every day of my life trying to figure out what's wrong with me. I love my husband but I can't live like this anymore. I don't know what to do. Thanks for reading my post.
Don't think for another second that those 'women' in those videos have anything that you don't or are better in any way. There is nothing to "live up to". They have sex for money. They are prostitutes. You can also call them home wreckers. There is nothing beautiful or sexy about that. It's VILE. It takes an addict's mind to think otherwise.
The problem here is that he doesn't see a problem. The reason it worked out with my husband is that he knew it was wrong and wanted to stop. If you consider it cheating and you've told him that, than its cheating.