this is sort of a long story so here I go.

My 2 older sons and I have had a falling out and now they won’t speak to me and they won’t let me see my grandsons. I let both boys and their wives and children live with me several times thru the years for free. At the end of 2017 I went into the traveling nurses program and got my first assignment in Nevada (my home is in Texas) and I sat my 2 older boys down and told them that they needed to split the electric and water in half and the house payment we would split 3 ways that was agreed upon. My oldest son is 29 and I told hims while he was in school they could stay with me they have been living with me since 2016. (Free) He went into school and changed his major 3 times in the course of a year. My middle son hadn’t started school but had planned on it and his wife wasn’t working. Well with all of this I still let these families live with me for free including buying groceries for the 4 adults, 3 children and myself and my husband. My oldest son bought my car from me and paid off what I told him was owed on it well I gave him the wrong amount on the payoff and so I talked with my husband and came to the agreement that we would pay off the balance instead of telling them that we owed more. I started to get the money from them for their cell phones and the utilities and eventually I started charging them for rent. I spent 7 months in Nevada on my assignment and in May of last year my mother fell terminally ill. I came back to be closer to her so I worked in Kansas until her passing in October the 16th.. This was and has been a very stressful time due to some sibling rivalry after my mother’s death. 1 week after my mother’s death my oldest son accused me of stealing $7000.00 from him and his wife and convinced my middle son and his wife I stole money from them. Of course this upset me, furiated me,shocked me and I was very angry and sent a blast text telling them they needed to get out of my house and right after that I text them and told them that I didn’t want that I couldn’t do that to my grandsons. I told them they could stay until their apartments were ready that they were moving into in 3 weeks.. I also found out in the time my Mother was ill that my boys tried to have me committed into a psychiatric facility and informed my brother they would take over my house. My husband and I had been separated most of this time all of this is going on. My husband and I are now back together and trying to repair us,but I can’t get over how these adult children are acting. My husband and I have 4 other sons that we haven’t helped out like this or to this degree.. I have been totally disrespected by these 4 people and they are using my grandchildren against me. Both boys wives and I have been extremely close and now both girls have told me I was the sorriest excuse for a human being, I was a terrible fake person and that all the wanted to do was stay here and go to school.. I feel like I did everything right for these people and I get damned eveytime I turn around.. I have kept up getting my grandsons presents for the holidays and went to all their games.. And I’m still being damned.. I need help I feel like I’m in a catch 22 situation. I have apologized to everyone of them to lengthy extent.