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daughter abused by my pals fiance
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My daughter is a well knowledged person I have tried to teach her from who are bad people and who are good people and allways made her aware that noone is allowed to touch her in her private places coming from being abused myself i made it my lifes mission to make sure when my daughter was able to understand that noone should touch her there other than herself if she is going to the toilet or if i am bathing which i barely even do now, to my horror my daughter came to me just last week and told me that her little freinds dad had been playing games with them i asked her to describe these games and she said they played a naked party, and babies and he was the dadd, as well to add that her little freind showed her a picture of a explicit nature and said that it was her favourite picture, i have informed the authorities but i find there action rather slow this man is living with his own daughter and whats more my freind is defending him even though when she was told she acted as calm as anything , as if she kind of knew this had happened, i did the right thing by my daughter and my freinds daughter i just find her reaction (daughters freinds mum ) irrational my daughter is so innnocent in nature that it's just been me and her all her life so she is not used to seeing men walk around the house on with no clothes on she doesn't seem to be showing any signs that she is effected by this how ever it makes me wonder if it is delayed reaction and when the police finally get up of their bums and do take action it may hit her then ive tried to keep things normal as possible school and activities am finding it hard to contain my anger if i see nmy freind i want to shout at her for going out overnight and not getting my consent to leave my child with him i know i shouldnt be angry but i am and its now put a divide amognst all the mums that we all hang about with so now she has distanced herself off pulled her daughter out of school is this a sign she knows its happened and can't face it ot burying her head in the sand am so drained i can't cry because i dont want to show my daughter the severity of his actions she knows what he did wasnt right she just doesnt understand why he did it HELP!!!
Bandmom5
Hi whiteprincess, I'm so sorry that you and your daughter are living this horror but glad you came here for support. If the police are too slow, is there a children's protection service or agency (CPS or DYFS, division of youth and family services here) you can also report to? You absolutely did the right thing in believing your daughter and reporting this. She is very brave to have told you, and I'm so proud of her for that. She may not show signs for a while that this has effected her, but you may want to have her see a counselor who specializes in this. Also, this board doesn't have alot of posts, but if you go the member group (not support group) Parents Whose Children Have Been Sexually Abused, there are many people who can support you and answer questions there, quite a few from GRB. Be strong and come here for support or advice whenever you need--welcome.
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Hello and thanx for replying yeah it was the family protection division of the police that came out and i called them up the other day and i got told ont he phone that because my daughter lives in a safe home it is not of a high priority it makes me sick as i hear from news from other parents that my friend is allowing other kids sleep overs there makes me sick and angry i want to go smash his face in
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