Parenting Newborns & Infants (0-1) Support Group
Feeding your infant and ensuring they are getting enough nutrition is one of the most important aspects of parenting during that first year. This community is dedicated to those who are nurturing a baby, whether breastfed or formula-fed.
Oh and I dont know if you know but sometimes the formula your son is on gets covered by insurance. I even found out that the soy formula for my son is covered if it is Dr. prescribed. It is covered in full for 1 year and is delivered right to my front door.'
I hope you have some luck...cranky fussy babies are no fun.
Em is exclusively breastfed, but her mother (I'm her aunt and caretaker) won't restrict her diet to see if its due to allergies. In my case, there is only so much I can do to help. :o(
Have you gotten a sloped changing mat yet? It'll really come in handy. Also, have you talked to your doctor about thickening the formula? I've heard this also helps. If 30 minutes of having him sitting straight up don't work, try to extend that amount of time. Em needs anywhere from 45 mins to 2 hours or else she will projectile vomit. One of the plus sides to having reflux is that she sits up like a champ!
Lastly, keep an eye out for Esophagitis. If your baby vomits a lot, the stomach acid in the vomit can eat away at the Esophagus. If your baby is in pain while trying to eat, have it checked out by the doctor. (You'll notice the baby might refuse food even when crying out of hunger)
As for laying him flat, Harriet didnt lay flat from the day we found she had reflux until she was 6 months old, we bought a AR Pillow designed by an american mum whos baby choked on reflux during the night, Its a 30 degree angle and baby is strapped safely on to it, harriet slept like a dream and safely to add i slept to knowing that her reflux couldnt throw itself up such an angle.
As for gas, we used to burp her frequently throughout a feed but found that made it worse, the specailist told us the mor latchin and unlatching a baby does the more wind they get, so rather than take the bottle away to burp her we let her tell us when she was ready, if she took her feed in one that was fine, it acctually meant less gas! We used infacol but the thing with that is if you dont give it with every feed without fail then when it isnt given it leaves a portion of the inestines not coated, meaning gas bubbles stick there and are even tricker to get out. Gripe water is age old but helped for Harriet.
Reflux was the pain in my motherly ass for months even to the point where i got her in her pram, walked her to sleep and fed her in her sleep just to food in her, my husband vacumed whilst i ed her as the noise made her concentrate on eating, we have paced the room whilst feeding, honestly anything that we could however stupid it may have seemed!
I wish you look and just try anything, feel free to message me if you need a chat! xx
Tommee Tippee stuff is great. They have sippy cups with a similar design as the bottle and I use it with both of the girls. Em developed nipple confusion and refuses bottles, so I found that to be a great alternative.
Also, I found that she didn't spit up at all when I'd BF in bed....I know you FF but just the act of feeding in a dark, calm, quiet environment was the key. She'd get her fill, then fall right to sleep....I didn't even need to burp her. This would probably only work for overnight feedings but it may just be enough to get you some much needed sleep :)