I've been divorced since the kids were 7 & 9. I raised them alone . I couldn't leave the house without my son running out the door and into my car . When he began working , a coworker introduced him to his sister and they have been together ever since . I know where he lives based on google but never went to the address. I met his gf 1x for less than a minute. I have made several attempts to get together with both . I haven't heard or seen him for several years nor does he answer his phone or texts . He is 26 now. My daughter is 24 and has always lied since 8th grade . We went to therapy and medication was prescribed. She rarely took . Her bf didn't want her to take them . I would speak to her on phone about every 6 months but now I hear nothing . I was told she is involved with a 35 year old man with a preteen son and she is pregnant with twins . She isn't married to this man and dodged away from a family member when they were in the same store . I'm heart broken as well and it's consuming me . I get no support from my mother or siblings and I'm suffering alone .