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I have long been fascinated by New York City. I've seen many movies and t.v. shows that have taken place in and about living in NYC and I just can't understand the life style. Things I have noticed about NYC: there seems to be a bunch of other cities so close together that if you're driving, you could drive into one of them and not notice,,,although there are a lot of cars with big traffic jams, nobody seems to drive one,,,people seem think there is no problem cramming themselves like sardines into a train car that is under the ground to go from one place to another,,,they could turn the streets into parking lots and nobody would notice,,,the buildings are way too tall,,,people have to be in good shape to live there because they have to walk everywhere,,,the are no big supermarkets, only small stores and none of them carry a full variety of food,,,,people must go shopping for food more than once a week, possibly 3 or 4 or 5 times a week and they have to visit several stores just to plan a meal,,,there's not a lot of space in NYC,,,people live too close together either in apartments or what they call homes. I live in Waco, Texas, what I consider, still, a small town, even though it has a population of 150,000. Comparing the 2: I live in a 2 bedroom house, but there's at least 10-20 feet between the houses,,,,I shop for groceries once a week in a large supermarket, but I can't walk to it even if I could walk and I can get prescriptions there if I want,,,,convenience stores rule, but you buy food there only in an emergency because it costs too much, gas is cheap,,,just about everybody has a car,,,public transportation is an afterthought,,if a bus is crowded, we'll wait for the next one,,our tallest building is maybe a 100th as tall as those in NYC,,,downtown is mainly for tourists, few normal stores are there,,,it seems a lot of space is wasted, but we use it to have fun,,,businesses are far apart and mostly tucked away in shopping centers,,,although cities are getting closer, we can tell where we are,,,,people here are either lazy or out of shape because we use a car,,or maybe we just don't want to take the time. I think I'd like to live in NYC for a week or two to go to the small stores, but only if I could use a Sedgeway.
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There.my mom and three sisters just got back from NYC.i here it is something to see.used to live in Atlanta
It is nothing like NYC. but the city buses are standing room only at times. you can take the train it is the same at times. the traffic there is crazy!
It is all the things Foxysdad says but that's part of what makes it New York. Very neighborhood has its own character. Park Slope is refined, The Village is bohemian, there's China Town down near Canal Street right next to Little Italy and Times Square which in recent years has been cleaned up considerably. You can always, always find something to do. My husband and I used to drive over on Sundays and drive around until we found a parking space then do whatever was closest. We visited the Museum of Natural History, the Met, the Cathedrals of St. John, St. Pat and a lot of places I can't recall. I miss it sometimes just for that reason. It's funny how the weather is often lousy but people walk almost everywhere while in LA the weather is great and people drive almost everywhere. And that's the reason I no longer live close, I got tired of the snow and ice, NJ isn't as good as NYC at dealing with it. I love FL for many reasons but I still love The City and never tired of visiting.
NYC has a lot of history. Manhattan pays extremely well and there is TONS of work there. You can get a bus pass monthly and commute from any of the other boroughs or across the hudson in new jersey and get to work just as quickly.
the reason people don't drive is because buses and trains arrive every five minutes. they claim san diego is the same way. you should go to a travel agent and get a sightseeing package with hotel and airfare and see the sights. a lot of people who live/lived in nyc have never sight seed. everyone goes to central park, lincoln center, radio city, rockefeller center and fao schwarz .... also serendipity for desert is very popular and tavern on the green in central park, but there are many other tourist attractions that you forget to visit if you are there all the time. they have a huge museam of art and a natural museam of history. nyc is fun, i just can't see living there permanently. i lived in phili and they had all the perks and more and the buildings are even older. and its slightly better weather, especially on the jersey side across the delaware river.
ny in general is extremely cold - all of the north east is.
I'm going to assume foxysdad meant a Segway rather than Sedgeway.
I'm also assuming when he wrote about it seeming like there are a lot of cities close together based on tv and film he's either did not realize they were depicting the different boroughs of NYC (most people seem to think NYC is solely Manhattan where all the skyscrapers and the majority of the touristy stuff is, so Queens, The Bronx, Brooklyn, and Staten Island - which all have their own sort of identity that makes them feel like vastly different places - can come across as completely different cities) or it was just the trickery of tv and/or film to make it seem like there are a lot of cities close to NYC. If I'm not mistaken, the next closest actual city in the state of New York to NYC (distance-wise) would be Yonkers which is about an hour north of NYC. I'm not sure how close the nearest city in New Jersey is to NYC though. But let's face it, tv and film would never actually depict characters actually travelling an hour or more to another city because that would be a waste of their time so things just seem closer because they need to save time.
The reason people don't drive (at least when it comes to Manhattan) is because it costs A LOT to park a car for a day there. People who live and work within the city tend to prefer public transportation or choose to walk because it's cheaper and easier to get around for them. Even people who live further away and commute often will opt to take a train into the city or carpool and split costs in order to save some money. I should note that it's not just parking the car that's costly - bridge and tunnel tolls are quite a lot of money, especially if you're crossing them during peak hours.
LuvMyTitans had noted about how fast everyone walks - it's because we New Yorkers don't dawdle; we've got places to be and we're prompt about it. On the streets of Manhattan you can always tell the difference between a native New Yorker and a newbie and a tourist based on how fast they walk and whether they stop to look at anything or need directions. Not everyone is cut out for living in the general vicinity of NYC - the city is both awesome and imposing. Anyone who considers moving there should visit a few times and make sure they can keep up with the flow of the foot traffic (and make sure you have a well paying job lined up first too; everything will cost more than you're used to there) before actually deciding to call it home.
Secondly, TESS, I am confused (so what else is new, right?) I thought you lived somewhere in or around Utica, NY, but now you stated you live in Waco, Texas (where I thot Foysdad was from!), then you say you are from the Hudson Valley!!
So, WHAT is it?? Enquiring minds want to know??!!
NDY
Sorry, Got MY DOGS mixed up!!
Found Foxysdad pn the way out and it CLEAREF my mind as much as THAT is possible!!
Applogies ALL THE WAY AROUND" ... Am I forgiven ?!!
Please??!
NDY