Over The Fence Community Group

A quote from one of our happy Over The Fence members: "Hi JS- Thank you for the welcome message. Do you remember that show Home Improvement and the neighbor Wilson Wilson Jr. who would meet Tim the Tool Man at the fence, but never showed anything but his eyes? He was so funny. This group reminds me of those encounters... you get the wisdom, humor, and support from your DS...

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Group Foundernotdeadyet005
notdeadyet005
"No, No , No...you did nothing wrong and the group is great. I just feel like I am not a contributing member and not up to the standards of your excellent group. Please know I appreciate the work you do for the group. I'm just not at a place right now to be a really serious member of the group that I feel is expected from your members. Thank you for your note and I wish you the best of everything"

This is a note from one of my nearest & dearest Friends that I have had for a long time who quit over the Fence & Unfriended me besides.. When I discovered this - I wrote them ask why as i was so sick of loss over it all..

PLEASE do not feel that I have ANY expectations from anyone -- As I don't.. I admit I do enjoy hearing from y'all but NOTHING is ever expected.. If you find you do not care to participate & just want to READ only that is fine. You needn't quit the group to do just that.. However, if you do decide for one reason or the other, after thinkin about it, TO quit the group.. why would you feel you have to quit being my Friend? i just don't understand.. i had been long- time Friends with this person - just makes me sick to my stomach thinkin about it...

NDY
TES9579
TES9579
Did this friend reply to you as to why they unfriended you?
deleted_user
deleted_user
((((HUGS)))) TO YOU
deleted_user
deleted_user
NDY

Sorry for what you are going through. Hopefully your friend will reconsider and get back in touch with you. Take care.

Valerie
wag952
wag952
NDY folks often come and go on DS... I would tell you from experience that we are all here for many reasons, among these are sick people hat need support, lonely people that want friendship, and a few are having emotional or mental issues.... Dont let it get you down kid, she may never tell you why she left but dont assume its something you said or did, it may just be time for her to move on..
Yrod
Yrod
NDY Sorry that she chose to leave. To unfriend you is just plain rude. But then I am just a little ok with this action. Reason being? That just gives all of us that much more of you. Do not be sad. Gods Hands hold it all. Your friend YrodXXXX
LuvMyTitans
LuvMyTitans
NDY. I have been hurt so much on DS................ I don't want you or anyone to get hurt........ but it happens............. and it sucks.............. let the bad stuff go............you can't please everyone.
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