Out of the Fog Community Group
For those who are done with their affair and want to make things better. Please be respectful of others in your posts. Rants, tirades, replies that are off topic, etc. will be deleted.
I posted this on the Infidelity and rebuilding pages as well:
I finally created my own profile instead of using my husband, Willyd42's account. We share all information but it will be much easier to make sense of who is talking now that I have my own username. For all that I've already talked with, you are UNREAL!!!!!! So inspiring and amazing!!!! A brief overview is that I am the CS in the marriage and my affair lasted a little over a year. It was over in May 2011. I am willing to share any details you may have.
My husband and I are expecting our third child in June so during our crazy bonding phase, we created this unexpected miracle of life that is making my belly expand daily! Things have been extremely hard but I am determined to my dying day to rebuild this marriage. My perfect husband is worth it and our 2 (soon to be 3) children are irreplaceable. We have many ups and downs but keep trying our very hardest and that is what I am so thankful for.
PRAY 4 FORGIVENESS all in due time.
I finally created my own profile instead of using my husband, Willyd42's account. We share all information but it will be much easier to make sense of who is talking now that I have my own username. For all that I've already talked with, you are UNREAL!!!!!! So inspiring and amazing!!!! A brief overview is that I am the CS in the marriage and my affair lasted a little over a year. It was over in May 2011. I am willing to share any details you may have.
My husband and I are expecting our third child in June so during our crazy bonding phase, we created this unexpected miracle of life that is making my belly expand daily! Things have been extremely hard but I am determined to my dying day to rebuild this marriage. My perfect husband is worth it and our 2 (soon to be 3) children are irreplaceable. We have many ups and downs but keep trying our very hardest and that is what I am so thankful for.
PRAY 4 FORGIVENESS all in due time.
I'm the BS and I tried to save the marriage but my, now ex, wife decided to be with the OM. I think she's still in "the fog" as many aspects of her personality have changed. For example, she always wantedd vacations in the tropics and now goes shopping at Prada in New York in the wintertime.
I guess what I'm trying to figure out is how long this "fog" can last and what finally brings people out of it? I hhave no idea the relationship can be recovered, rather we went into a phae after D-Day where she hates my living guts because I discovered the affair. I have somehow become the bad guy. This makes it very hard to co-parent. I'm trying to understand all of this better.