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chris18940
chris18940

I didn't realize that i was married to a Narcissist until after about 12 years.  I am divorced from him but have a hard time co-parenting since he lies all the time.  Now I have a 12 year old who is showing narcissist signs.  I do not know how to parent her.  Can i change her behavior?  I am an enabler emapath who is a people pleaser.  I need advice, anyone in a similar situation?  I feel isolated from the world just like my ex husband used to do with me.  

AnnieM
AnnieM
I would like to follow here. I am going through a break up with the father of my child. It has been so bad and I find it hard to cope with his abuse even now. He will text me just hurt me and then rub his new gf in my face via text and it's not like i can block him....
My attorney doesn't seem like much help either... it's like well if he doesn't hit you nothing we can do.... ;/
I am so worried about visitation with my daughter!!!
5 years together and I just realized he was Narcissist and now he's lying to everyone making me look crazy.. and there is like nothing you can dooo.... its frustrating....
chris18940
chris18940
I understand....took me a lot longer to see what i was married to but i am very afraid my daughter is picking up his habits.
I hope things turn out ok for you and your daughter.
AnnieM
AnnieM
Yea at this point I think that is my main concern. I am doing some research and reading up on this.... I feel like I see some bad habits developing in her and my son. It worries me.
Jobbie
Jobbie
I too am just learning about this disorder...... also I' just realized my husband has many ,if Not all narcissist traits!as a teenager he had to have counseling from school counselors and they suggested a psychiatrist and if he didn't see one ASAP his anger would worse ,his lifestyle would become very violent ,which it did! He also had a horrific abusive childhood his mother was pure evil, his dad too, he has deep rooted anger ,anger issues, absolutely no coping skills. If something don't go his way or someone says something wrong to him? he' would just as soon kill you!!! He never apologizes he's never wrong there's nothing wrong with his mind etc etc I'm the crazy one here, right! I would suggest to get some professional help for your children ASAP!!!