Mothers of Sexually Abused Children Community Group
Support group for mothers who have just found of about a disclosure or are mid-way in their healing process.
my abused daughter at childhood
kamkee
hello! im still in shock haven just found that my 19 years old daughter who have been so resentful of me was molested as a child. shes been battling with depression and lately just caught her been on marijuana. i feel so shattered. can anyone help?
mom2010
I'm so sorry to.hear this? Did She say how old she was or who it was? My daughter was molested at a young age as well. It's not any easy thing to deal with
Momabearx10
I'm sorry to hear this as well. I know the emotions you must have. She could use some therapy. And you as well. Its absolutely the hardest thing Ive ever had to deal with.
THATmom
I'm so sorry to hear of what has happened to your daughter, my little girl is only 9 and I remember finding out like it was yesterday and there seems to be constant reminders and dates that trigger me, does it ever get any easier? I believe not, it still haunts me and my heart hurts just as much this very second even thinking about it but tomorrow seems to come and you just some how manage to get through it, there was a time when I never thought I'd hear my little girl laugh again and I never thought I'd ever smile again, I became a horrible person and a very blank and numb one. She moved school a year ago and her new school have been very supportive and I can see a massive improvement in her, I just wish I could see inside her mind so I knew how much she remembers from the first time. I don't know how but you do manage to just carry on with life, I suppose we don't really have any other choice. I was told their wasn't even evidence with my little girl and that killed me (still does) to think the little c*nt got away with it. I wish I could tell you how to deal with it, but I honestly don't have those answers, we just do. We just some how find that strength to carry on. I hope you and your daughter can move forward together and I hope you both have others around you to offer love and support. Xxx
WhyUs
Before my son told me he was molested as a young child, he told me at 16yrs old, he was so resentful, even hateful with his words when we argued. He defied me in every way. Started smoking pot at 13yrs old, running away, stealing, lying and I never knew why. He even dropped out of school in 10th grade. Its heart wrenching and devastating to hear your child say they were molested. I am so sorry this happened to your daughter. I'm not in the best state mentally right now because of what happened but I'm here for a reason, to give and get support. Wish I could say it gets better but I cant right now. One day at a time. I pray a lot and I'm not a religious person, I just dont know how else to deal with it all. I've been carrying this around for 2yrs and its destroying me, I cant even begin to know how my son, your daughter felt/feel carrying their secret for so long. I guess we just have to have faith and believe that things will get better. Sending prayers to the universe for you and yourdaughter. .
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