Motherless Daughters Community Group
For any daughter who has lost their mother, whether through Death (if it's been one day ago or 40 years ago) or Abandonment, (i.e.-drug abuse, mental illness, physical or emotional abuse, etc.) and is working through the grief process. This group provides unconditional support and understanding from women who have also lost their Moms and who truly care.
Hi All,
Well we just found out my father had been seeing this girl I went to high school with. To make matters worse I never liked her then and now really despise her for sleeping with my father how gross. He is in his 50's she is 38 with 2 small children and to make matters worse one of her children's names is my mother's name : Victoria. He says he has ended it and now looks for forgiveness from me and my mother's family for disgracing her memory around our town (he has wined and dined her in the company and places of friends of my mother's and my family's. He now has also made the decision to sell the house in which I rent an apartment from with my husband and I am in no way financially ready to leave. He says the house won't sell immediately and to save my rent to save up to go. My brother ran away from home too when he heard all this. He is only 18 and he won't go and talk to anyone professionally. He keeps not showing up to the appointments I make so I have given up on that. Just venting and just feeling so lost. All these changes are so quick and traumatic for me.
Marci
Marci
Well we just found out my father had been seeing this girl I went to high school with. To make matters worse I never liked her then and now really despise her for sleeping with my father how gross. He is in his 50's she is 38 with 2 small children and to make matters worse one of her children's names is my mother's name : Victoria. He says he has ended it and now looks for forgiveness from me and my mother's family for disgracing her memory around our town (he has wined and dined her in the company and places of friends of my mother's and my family's. He now has also made the decision to sell the house in which I rent an apartment from with my husband and I am in no way financially ready to leave. He says the house won't sell immediately and to save my rent to save up to go. My brother ran away from home too when he heard all this. He is only 18 and he won't go and talk to anyone professionally. He keeps not showing up to the appointments I make so I have given up on that. Just venting and just feeling so lost. All these changes are so quick and traumatic for me.
Marci
Marci
With your dad, it was dating someone much younger; with my dad, it's his raging anger. Either way it's so hard to deal with, and I think we have to try really hard to remember that they are grieving too. Honey, please come here to vent whenever you feel the need. We are all here to listen.
Hugs, Carol
Huge hugs
Sue
Marci
Thanks so much for replying although I am sorry to hear the pain your dad caused. I feel like he kicked me when I was down and that I can never forget. My dad knows better than to bring this girl in to our house it would be a war and there would def. be someone hurt physically. That is why he wants to sell the house now so he can go play house with her somewhere else while my 18 yr old brother and I fend for ourselves as orphans as if we lost both parents. I promised my mother I would gather my strength up for my brother and I and I intend to do so to march on. Thanks for listening and I am thinking of you too. Sorry for the pain you are going through too.
Marci