Motherless Daughters Community Group
For any daughter who has lost their mother, whether through Death (if it's been one day ago or 40 years ago) or Abandonment, (i.e.-drug abuse, mental illness, physical or emotional abuse, etc.) and is working through the grief process. This group provides unconditional support and understanding from women who have also lost their Moms and who truly care.
I just cant stand that I have to keep grieving. I mean I am not even able to grieve for 1 I have to grieve for 4?!?!? This is so hard. Sometimes I pretend it isnt happening and then others, well, I cant pretend because it is happening! It is so hard to concentrate on anything I am supposed to do. I couldnt even go to work today. I feel like I have no one to talk to that understands me. That is why I am rambling on like this on here because I know that many of you understand what I am going through. Thanks for listening.
Raquel
Raquel
We do understand what you are feeling. Sadly this is all a part of the grieving process.
I am not sure if I have suggested this before to you , but if not, can I recommend a book to you? It is called On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kubler Ross and David Kessler.
I think one of the most difficult parts of grieving is that we feel we are alone. This book makes you realise that , whilst it doesnt make it any easier, what you are feeling is normal. It is a process that none of us can put off or get rid of, we need to go through it.
I realise though that you have been going through this sad and terrible process for more than one person. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this and feel so alone.
I read in your journal that you go to Church and I am sure that that is one of the things that helps you on a daily basis. Your beliefs.
We will listen to you ANYTIME! I am glad that you wrote this post here and I certainly hope that you find comfort in sharing with us.
Love and hugs to you
Sam
xoxoxo