I am seeking advice. My husband and I love each other dearly and are not wanting to divorce. We have 3 children. 2 biologically together and my step son from his previous relationship. I’m just going to get straight to the point. Our two oldest are both 4 and my step son molested our daughter. Which he and her both have the same story. He shows absolute no remorse but doesn’t mind to tell us what he did. Our daughter says she doesn’t want him to be her brother anymore and doesn’t want to be around him and she has been having a lot of depression since it happened and seems to hate her life already. THEY ARE 4!!! 

My husband and I are currently signing up for family counseling. 

I am afraid this situation will end up to divorce.

what I am struggling with most is that this happened from my step son at such a young age but it’s impacted our little girl in the biggest way!

we have another 10 month old in the home and my step son is one minute aggressive to him and the next as sweet as can be like nothing ever happened. 

My step sons sons mother seems to think what he did was normal behavior and purely out of curiosity. But I tell you it is not! He begged and begged to play with my daughter down there and violated her after she kept telling him no.

she is scared of him.

we have asked him multiple times of someone is doing something to him and he smiles and says no, nobody is like everything is all peachy.

He shows no signs of remorse and waits for my husband and I to not be around to hurt our daughter, our son, and our dog.

someone please give me advice.