March/April/May 2018 IVF Buddies Community Group

Ladies going through IVF this year supporting each other through the process!

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lilie315 02/19/2018

Hello everyone,

So today is day 13 of a 5day frozen transfer, and i woke up to some (maybe quarter size) spotting. I tried to not look when i wiped, but i did notice a noticeable amount of blood.. I will try not to gross you all out. Anyway, i put on a pad and cried, but tried to be strong for my husband b/c i don't want him to be upset. Then i went to work. Meanwhile, Thankfully, there's been no more bleeding at all... I guess i should probably mention that i tested on day 5 and it was a faint happy line, days 7 and 10 were clearly written the word that we all on here are praying for. I won't type it though. Anyway, now i'm all confused, and all i want to do is lay on my bed curled up with my hubby and cry, but i dont know even know what or if i'm crying about!!

I think i just wanted to post this to start getting my head together.

Thank you for your support!

xoxo

mrsmooney826 02/19/2018

Its not over until its over!!! When is your beta blood draw?

lilie315 02/19/2018

So i test tomorrow (day 14) and i guess if it's P then i call the RE and wait for further instructions.

blbnjf 02/20/2018

Just keep telling yourself that you are ok- bc you are ok. Take some deep breaths and just get through each day as best as you can. I know it’s hard to celebrate something that has been unattainable for so long, but for now just roll with it. You will definitely have some uncertain days ahead, but it’s all part of the process and you have to get through this to make it to the next step. I am thinking about you and sending you so much love right now. You will be ok. xoxo, nikki

lilie315 02/21/2018

Thank you ladies sooo much!! Had the first bata yesterday - something like 4216? Wanted me for an ultrasound today (day 15) to tell me they see something (a sac?) but can't tell if there's anything in it. The Dr said it seems to be on schedule for this time... Will continue with the bata tomorrow and then again next week.. i still feel like that # is crazy high, but when i asked, they said the Dr didn't mention anything to be worried about..

MrsM - how are you doing?!?!

blbnjf 02/24/2018

Hope everything is progressing well! Some of my worst meltdowns out of the whole infertility journey were in my first trimester once I found out that I was pregnant, so you are definitely not alone there. I thought once I saw those magical positive lines on the pee stick, little birds would sing to me and I would feel a warm glow around me- definitely NOT how that worked out in real life. I was a hot mess. You have a strong beta though so that is a great start! How many embryos did you transfer? Is there a chance it could be twins?? Thinking of you:)

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