Masturbation Community Group
For all those people who touch themselves. Wether it is a little or alot. you can sound off here and list your concerns and comments. All are welcome
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I'm not ashamed by my liking of masturbation , but find it therapeutic. Am I alone in thinking like this ?
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Some people find masturbation addictive; it takes over their lives, distracting them from other activities. I have been lucky not to have had this problem. For me it has been self-limiting. When I have been feeling horny, a strong orgasm and ejaculation has been enough to allow me to divert my attention to other tasks and forget about sex for the rest of the day. The UK National Health Service take a relaxed view on risks of excessive use:
https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/am-i-masturbating-too-much-and-can-it-be-bad-for-me/
As Betty Dodson said in her guide Sex for One (1987) 'The most consistent sex will be the love affair you have with yourself. Masturbation will get you through childhood, puberty, romance, marriage and divorce, and it will see you through old age.' quoted in The Times Register 28/1/21 p.50.
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/betty-dodson-obituary-rx65sgvf2
Many people still seem to have hang-ups about masturbation, even with the anonymity of the Internet. This is such a pity: there could be so many people depriving themselves of such joy, or at least are unwilling to share their experiences to help others increase theirs. I have noticed many posts on other sites from those feeling guilty for enjoying it. For me, it has been a great pleasure all my adult life. Mostly I have been solo but I have been masturbated by men and women and I hope, returned the pleasure.
Solo masturbation is so accommodating to our desires. We do not have to depend on someone else being in the right frame of mind. There is no risk of infection or unwanted pregnancy.
For me, it has helped me concentrate on other things such as work: when I am aching so much between my legs that I can not think of anything else, an orgasm usually satisfies me for a while and lets me concentrate on work or something else I should be doing.
I have often wondered whether women get such satisfaction or do you have to keep coming back for more soon after?
Rubbing my nipples really hard makes me incredibly hard,
I do like to explore my anus but not to insert anything.
I also have a few panties that are silk
When I was younger, usually I became erect when naked. I could sometimes be so excited when naked, especially when standing in front of a mirror or taking exercise such as yoga, that I would have an orgasm and ejaculation without touching.
Not long after puberty, I found that handling myself, legs apart, in a standing position was often more fulfilling than lying down. When stood up I had a harder erection. I would cup my testicles in my left hand while rubbing the base of my glans by flicking my foreskin backwards and forwards over it. I have found this a good position for prolonging my enjoyment by 'edging' - letting my semen swill around my testicles and up and down my penis, pulling back just before orgasm. With a really hard erection when standing, my penis is bent upwards at about the same angle as a woman's vagina points upwards and backwards; my penis moves up and down, side to side, without touching it, as I come to orgasm when my semen squirts out 3 or 4 times at intervals of a few seconds.
My preference for coming to orgasm is in several stages at an unhurried, leisurely pace.
First is mental preparation. Imagination is so important to me. I think about things which arouse me.
Next I work on my bum. I stroke my shaved cheeks, play with my smooth hole, using a mirror. Sometimes I use a dildo.
Then I gently squeeze my testicles in my shaven bag.
I follow this with gentle stroking of my penis shaft and playing with the veins at the base to reduce the outflow of blood and to make a harder erection. I flick my foreskin forwards and backwards over my glans. I feel my semen swilling round my bollocks, up and down my prick ... I hold back and relax ... my semen returns to my testicle bag ... I play with my prick shaft and knob end ... I repeat this edging several times until I can no longer hold back. A burst of ecstasy comes throughout my body as I come to orgasm an ejaculate, often 3 or 4 times ... each squirt is followed by a slight relaxation, then I come again and again ...
Sometimes I can't go through all these stages: in fact, when I was younger, sometimes I would come to orgasm soon after stripping naked, without even touching myself.
I have also tried to develop and prolong spontaneous orgasms by relaxation and concentration supplemented by yoga exercises.
https://www.doyou.com/4-ways-yoga-can-help-you-have-stronger-orgasms-75148/
https://www.healthline.com/health/spontaneous-orgasm