Masturbation Community Group
For all those people who touch themselves. Wether it is a little or alot. you can sound off here and list your concerns and comments. All are welcome
MASTURBATION
METHODS - Beginnings - Mental Preparation - Imagination- Spontaneous Orgasms - Working on my Bum - Bum Plugs - Hardening my Penis - Coming to Orgasm - SITUATIONS - Exercise - Nudist Beaches - Sports Changing Rooms - Nude Saunas
'We all have our individual romantic or idealistic ideas. To get information that masturbation is our basic form of sex is hard, because who wants to admit they're masturbating?' (TOP 25 QUOTES BY BETTY DODSON | A-Z Quotes (azquotes.com)). Many people regard it as a taboo subject, even when using the anonymity of the Internet. Masturbation is not only for those without a partner. Partners might not feel like sex at the same time; often, women do not have an orgasm when their partner has had his or vice versa. A considerate partner will masturbate her/him.
Many sources explain the benefits of masturbation: reduces stress; improves muscle tone in the anal and pelvic areas; reduces the risk of prostate cancer; reduces menstrual cramps and muscle tension; improves self-esteem:
Masturbation: Health Benefits, Side Effects, Myths, FAQs (healthline.com)
10 Benefits of Masturbation - How Masturbating Boosts Your Health (menshealth.com)
17 Benefits Of Masturbation: Why Masturbating Is Good For You | mindbodygreen
Masturbation: Facts & Benefits (clevelandclinic.org)
METHODS
When I was 13, I began to feel exciting sensations as I had never experienced before: waves of titillating pleasure in my bum cheeks and the whole of the crevice, especially my bum hole, right through to my developing testicles and up to the end of my penis. As I lay naked in bed, I felt that I had to fondle and stroke: suddenly I experienced a surge of delight as I had never felt before as out came a spurt of creamy liquid. Right from the start of when I began to masturbate, I was aware that my bum cheeks and hole were erogenous areas. I would fix mirrors in positions to allow me to see them; I watched and poked my finger up my hole as I masturbated.
'Masturbation is our first and natural form of sexual activity and if that's inhibited or damaged, then we suffer for the rest of our lives.' TOP 25 QUOTES BY BETTY DODSON | A-Z Quotes (azquotes.com)
All my erogenous areas are inside my knickers: since I began to masturbate they have been my main sex toy, later supplemented with bum plugs. I have never found stroking my nipples stimulating, as some men do and never use my mouth in becoming aroused. Keeping my foreskin rolled back helps to keep me at least partially erect, which gives me a feeling of well-being and helps me mentally. Having got into the habit of keeping my foreskin lodged under the overhang of my glans, soon I was using paper towels to soak up dribbles of urine and semen, and also to fold into my bum crevice. Others are turned on by quite different parts of their bodies such as feet, nipples or stroking their back or abdomen.
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I like to masturbate in several phases at an unhurried, leisurely pace. I take at least half an hour altogether. When watching others masturbate, I notice that they work more vigorously on their penises or clitorises than I do on my penis, and less on their bum cheeks and holes. I have the impression that many are in a hurry and are trying to induce an ejaculation when their penis or clitoris is not fully erect. I have found that practising yoga helps, especially with a bum plug: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/what-are-butt-plugs-used-for#reasons-for-use
PLEASE YOURSELF: a very high proportion of my orgasms have been solo; only occasionally have I had help or mutual masturbation with other men or women, in sports changing rooms, on nudist beaches or when working as a nude model for example.
First is MENTAL PREPARATION. Usually I am still clothed when I start getting an erection, then I remove my clothes to get penis control (ability to move it up and down and side-to-side without touching it {Neural control of erection - PubMed (nih.gov)). I find that this makes my semen start to swill around even before touching my shaft.
IMAGINATION Thinking about things which arouse me is so important. I get considerable stimulation from visual sources. The Internet gives a wide choice. I find that to get the best effect I have to use my imagination - what might the model be feeling? What might be going through her mind? Visual contact of the woman with the camera can set off a chain of thought in me: her tense smile, flushed cheeks and her nipples reveal her erection, perhaps orgasm. The senses and my imagination arouse my bum, both my hole and my cheeks, and my testicles and penis.
Spontaneous Orgasms
Sometimes I can't go through all the stages below: in fact, when I was younger, often I would come to a spontaneous orgasm soon after undressing.
https://www.healthline.com/health/spontaneous-orgasm
There are many short films showing female orgasms on Nudeyoga.net. A particularly beautiful one is by Inara Byrne. Her nipples look erect and her cheeks flushed throughout the film; near the end she gets a wonderful erection of her clitoris with her juices oozing out as she achieves her orgasm: https://nudeyoga.net/amateur-nude-yoga-exercises/ 12.27
Another method of stimulating an orgasm without touching is this: standing naked, using only the muscles in my bum, I squeeze my cheeks together to stimulate my bum hole. Taking it all very slowly and gently, I keep squeezing until I have got penis control, my foreskin in its usual position lodged under the overhang of my knob end. When I can feel my semen swilling around, I relent from squeezing my bum cheeks to prolong the pleasure. Repeating this until I feel that I want to climax, I continue to squeeze, ejaculate, relax for a few seconds, squeeze, ejaculate .... several times, until all my semen is out for the time being.
Next I work on my bum
How to Have Anal Sex: A Beginner’s Guide
I found these two papers by Adrienne Santos-Longhurst particularly informative and enjoyable:
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/anal-sex-safety
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/what-are-butt-plugs-used-for#reasons-for-use
As the as the author says, there are many kinds of anal stimulation.
Many men and women use their bum cheeks and holes in masturbation, including fingering, licking (analingus), bum plugs, dildos and other toys, penis-in-bum with or without ejaculation:
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Some lick their partners' vaginas (cunnilingus) or their arse holes (rimming or analingus): Rimming – What is a rim job? What Is Cunnilingus: How to Perform Oral Sex on a Vulva.
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I fondle my cheeks and poke my finger up my bum to play with my hole and to massage my prostate gland just below my bladder on the forward side of my bum hole (with the usual precautions such as lubricant and no sharp finger nails). Alternatively I massage my prostate gland externally by rubbing the area between my scrotum and my bum hole. Prostate Orgasm: Prostate Massage and the Male G-Spot (Gräfenberg Spot). When I use either or both methods of prostate massage, my penis becomes very hard - if not already - my semen swills in my testicle bag, up and down my penis shaft and I can't help but ejaculate.
Many ladies enjoy stimulation of their clitorises and G-spots. The G-spot or Skene's glands has a similar erogenous effect for ladies as prostate massage for men. It is approached from her vagina rather than her anus. It is on the upper part of her vagina bordering her urethra that leads from her bladder. Many ladies also use their bum holes as part of achieving an orgasm.
The G-spot is the female prostate - American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology (ajog.org)
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/what-are-butt-plugs-used-for#reasons-for-use The G-spot is the female prostate - American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology (ajog.org) G Spot in Women: What It Is, How to Find It, and Sex Positions
I TRY TO MAKE MY PENIS AS HARD AS I CAN. I always keep this exposed by lodging my foreskin under the overhang. Keeping my foreskin rolled back keeps me erect or nearly so for part of the day. If I need help to harden my erection I squeeze the base of my penis gently to find the locations of the veins draining blood out of it. By restricting the outflow my penis becomes more engorged with blood and hardens.
When masturbating solo, I take my fingers out of my bum hole and replace them with a bum plug, using plenty of lube. Then I gently squeeze my testicles in my shaven bag. I stroke my penis shaft and play with the veins at the base to reduce the outflow of blood and to make a harder erection. I flick my foreskin forwards and backwards over my glans. I feel my semen swilling round my testicles, up and down my penis ... I hold back and relax ... my semen returns to my shaven bag ... I play with my penis shaft and knob end ... I repeat this several times (edging) until I can no longer hold back. A burst of ecstasy surges throughout my body ... a surge of spasms makes my bum hole tingle ... I come to orgasm and ejaculate, often 3 or 4 times ... each squirt is followed by a few seconds relaxation, then I come again, and again.
SITUATIONS
Between the ages of 11 and 18 I went to an all-boys school. At first, I found showering after physical education and games an embarrassing ordeal. Our sports teacher was a bully. He made us queue up naked outside the showers. 'Close up the queue' he would shout. Penises and bottoms touched. For him, sports were always to be accompanied by communal nudity - except for him. He never stripped off with the rest of us. Was he demonstrating his authority or seeking sexual gratificaton? After reaching puberty, embarrassment turned into excitement. Several boys said how much they liked my big, round bum 'just like a woman's' and how they would like to get their penises up it. I was flattered and excited by their attentions. I could feel the penis of the boy behind on my cheeks. My bum hole tingled in anticipation. My developing knob-end rubbed against the bum of the boy in front. I could feel my semen swilling around. What if ... ? But there was neither sufficient time nor privacy - until after school. Meanwhile our teacher would stand at the head of the queue to inspect each naked boy.
One of my friends at college was a keen rugby player. He asked me to teach him to swim because he was applying for a postgraduate course in physical education. In the swimming pool dressing room he was amused by my M&S knickers with full depth gusset at the front holding my male parts pointing upwards, foreskin back. When I took them off, he was even more amused as I moved my joystick up and down and side-to-side without touching. 'Careful' he said 'The (lady) attendant can see you'. (That was why I was standing where I was). After swimming, we returned to the dressing room. He repeated his admiration for my 'sturdy thighs' and how they compared favourably with his rugby-playing friends. I would not think that my big bum would appeal to him but he liked it. The exercise in the pool had perked us both up. Soon he showed his appreciation of my 'sturdy thighs' and bum. I spread shaving cream on his hard, throbbing flesh and guided it to where we both wanted it.
Sports Changing Rooms
I used to go swimming 3 or 4 times a week. Possibly because of the exercise, usually I had to get out of the water to masturbate in the toilets or showers before resuming swimming. Probably not according to the rules, lady swimmers and others often went into the men's room, just passing through or for a longer stay. The ladies I met were mostly mature. I guess they were just trying to spice up their lives a little. Some made remarks like how long it was since they masturbated with a man or even saw his erect penis.
When I had finished swimming, returning to the dressing room nude and aroused, often there would be others covering themselves with towels. When they saw me, the towels came off and we compared our penises. I love to show my big knob end. I always keep my foreskin back, lodged under the overhang to make it look even bigger. I would put my clothes in a locker near the floor and bend over, legs apart, to show everyone my bum crevice and testicles dangling. Occasionally this resulted in mutual masturbation or penis in bum pleasures. Sometimes one or two of them would thank me for getting it all started.
In the city where I live, lady attendants often walked through the male changing rooms; in some pools the changing rooms and showers were clearly visible from the attendants' lodge. I feel that women in the men's room worked well. I always felt safe from false accusation (why were they in the men's room?) - and of course I enjoyed being masturbated by them, spraying their tits with my cum and penis in bum fun.
Some of our local swimming pools have mixed nude times allocated in their saunas. Sometimes there were only one or two other men with half a dozen or so mature ladies. Lady supervisors were in attendance to see that all was in order, but this left plenty of scope for intimacy especially in the showers. On one occasion there were two well-built ladies in their 50s. 'We are district nurses' the dark-haired one explained. 'Some of my friends call me the bum queen because I spend so much of my time poking up patients' bottoms. 'Both of them had figures to justify such an appellation' I thought to myself. They looked down at my penis, which made it stand to attention. After some fondling, we went to the shower, where they practised their occupation up my bum until it was time to receive me.
There are more masturbation situations in part 2 of this series - nudes.
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Although intended to help women to get more pleasure from solo and group masturbation, I find Betty Dodson's methods of interest for me too.
TOP 25 QUOTES BY BETTY DODSON | A-Z Quotes (azquotes.com)
Upgrade Masturbation Technique | Betty Dodson & Carlin Ross (dodsonandross.com)
My heartfelt thanks to all the sporting ladies who have posted their photographs on the Internet, each of them beautiful in her own special way.