I have honestly never been in a Marriage/Relationship where trust was not there. I have always fully trusted a person until they did something that I would loose the trust. I started a new relationship back in last March. At the time it started everything seemed great. The last few months have gotten a lot worse, his trust issues have blown way out of wack. A little background on him, he was married to a lady for 11 years, when they met they were both divorcing, and both had kids, well after 11 years of marriage he found out that she had been mentally and physically cheating with her ex husband from before. A week after he moved out she moved her first husband back into their home. Well I am paying the ultimate price now, he doesn't trust me at all, If I take too long in the bathroom he wonders, if I am 5 mins longer getting home he wonders, I havae a cell, that he has access to all the time, (we both use it) but he still assumes I am on it doing things i shouldnt, every chance he gets he checks all texts, etc. He has terrible issues with me talking to my kids dads. He needs to know what we said, he doesnt like me talking on the phone with them because he cant hear it, It is getting really bad. I have lost all sexual desire because the trust is not there. He want to have a baby, but I am terrified he will ask if it is his. Everytime I question why he thinks these things, he says because that is what "SHE" used to do. I am not her and it is really hard... ANY ADVICE would be great. He is starting to talk to a counsellor today, but he is blaming it all on me... and that I show him no love. How can I show him love and affection when everything I do is being questioned?