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chauntel 04/18/2018

Me and my husband are married for 26 years. My father forced me to got maried when i was 15 and he married me out of spite.!Now he started to become truthfull by keep on telling me how bad it is to be with me, that he will rather die than to be with me, that he will stay with me only until kids finished school but when he is infront of the kids he is the most loving husband. I see its difficault because he try not to be around me to mutch, always on his phone and in another room. He is not having an affair because his phone does'nt have a block on but he trully hates me so mutch and i dont know why. He was sick for 3 months and during that time i was the most importend persone in his life but when he got better he hates me. Everything i do is wrong. What can i do to make him love me again?

finallyawakenow 04/20/2018

Forgive us for not responding to you. I need you to know that there is no way to ‘make’ anyone love us. It doesn’t seem fair sometimes but it is the reason true love can exist. I see that you are struggling. The best thing for you is to do is to take steps toward finding peace in your self. Go for a walk, go to church, anything where you can just be you. Literally smell the roses! We can only be happy when we love ourselves. It’s lifes greatest challenge and the most rewarding. Small steps

chauntel 04/22/2018

Hi. Thanks for the advise. It sounds lovely just to go for a walk but unfortunatly i am not aloud to go anywhere without him or without permision. When i must take the kids to there functions i must tell him where i will be and when i will be back and then he will check up on me to see if i got there safe. If i must go to the shops he must go with me i am not aloud alone. He is very protective. I must be happy he cares for my safety, would just like it if he will atleast talk to me

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