Hello I am having a hard time me and my husband has been together for four years we have a kid together but what I am having a hard time with for the last two months he has not come to bed with me he stay up all hr of the night doing only god no what I don't trust him I have caught him doing thing he wasn't supposed to be doing before and I just think he is doing it again he always has his phone up his butt and never leave it anywhere I am felling lost I have give my all in this and I feel like he hasn't I cry myself to sleep almost everybody since this is going on we don't you know anymore the only time is when he is drunk we don't touch don't kiss or anything I am lost and need help