Marriage Problems Community Group
I know I am not out here alone but it sure feels like it. My marriage is falling apart so fast, the problem is my husband won't admit it. He like to continue to play that game of trying to be people we are not and pretending that it is all ok. I really don't know how much more of this I can handle! I can't take the screaming and insults any longer and I can't take the...
Hello I'm new to the group. I've been married to my husband for 10 yrs and we've been together 14 yrs. I feel like he has changed alot since our last son was born almost 3 yrs ago. He's become distant from me not the kids just from me. I feel like he doesn't find me sexy or beautiful anymore. No matter what I do I can't get him to turn his head or even pay me a compliment. When I do get all dressed up and sexy, he will say " why are you wearing that". Not babe your beautiful or sexy. And it hurts alot. All he does when he comes home from work is get on his computer to Facebook and chat with his BMW buddies or hang out in the garage. The weekends he is always gone doing things for himself never with me or the boys. I feel alone all the time. I'm constantly worried that he is unhappy in our marriage and not in love with me anymore. We don't have a sex life. He says its because of the kids. That's not it, it's him not wanting to be with me.
I have been with my husband for 23 years and we have 3 children together and 1 from me. I am dealing with the aftermath of my biological father molesting our daughters and now my husband wants to blame me for it. I did all the right things for our daughters and the p.o.s. got 80+ years. But now every thing in the free world that is wrong is somehow my fault. He has actually said that he is the only person he knows that is in a one sided marriage. My husband has also tried to turn my children against me after the disclosure of what happened to them. He wasn't able to do that because my children really love me, but it didn't stop him from trying. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that doesn't really seem to be to interested in you? The man you are with should always want you to know you are his number one and if he doesn't then maybe it's time to reconsider your options. Don't worry I've been with mine for 23 years and look at how long it took me to figure it out. It doesn't mean there won't be tears and pain and heartbreak, but look at the face of your beautiful children everyday and know that you did your part in teaching your boys how to treat women. Don't let their father be their teacher if he doesn't know how to treat YOU right. And don't be afraid to tell your boys that as a woman this is how you like being treated and if they want good relationships also they need to listen to you, because you are a WOMAN!! Don't know if this helped at all, but again I'm sorry for your hurt. Best of luck to you. :-)
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