Marine Girlfriends Community Group
As Marine girlfriends, we know how hard it can be to face boot camp, training, and deployments. We face many lonely nights, and we know how to be strong on the outside when we are crying on the inside. We have unconditional pride for our men in uniform, and we are always faithful. Semper Fi! This group is for us to find support from others facing the same challenges....
I have had a very troubled life. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months now. He left for bootcamp a month ago and I am really struggling. I am terrified that when he comes back that he will not love me anymore. He is my everything I have clinical depression and anxiety and he is my rock I tell him everything and I count on him so much. I have no one since he left and I can't write him and tell him everything that is wrong and I don't know what to do. How are we supposed to start a future together if for the next few years he will constantly be moving around and we can't move around together unless we are married which we plan on doing but how are we supposed to get married if he is going to be constantly gone. Any advice? I could really use some advice or even just a friend to listen and help.
As for marriage, I also know how you feel. The way I look at it is that you can't rush it. You can't try and force it or it's not real you know? That's a really special time for both of you and if you try and over think it (like I always do) you'll end up going crazy, trust me. It'll happen when it happens and if you both truly love eachother then that's all you need to get through this. Focus on the good, not the bad. Focus on the memories and the amazing ones yet to come. If you need to talk I'm here....❤️