5 yr ago i met an advoidant and became an love addict. the moment we married he wanted to leave me and i didnt understand the game i was in. i had boundries in place and was strong. accepted him the way he was. the first thing to go were my boundries. the second thing wrong was me trying to fix him and he trying to fix me. my belief in all people are equal was gone or i wouldnt of tried to fix him and his son they would of been fine the way they were . alot of my work on myself is gone. ive been running around in confushion and anger.the medication is the most important. i lissoned when he said not to take it or not to take all of it or think this way or that. he also tells his son what and how much medication to take when he comes home from seeing the phy doc. he is a nice guy but needs to leave peoples medication alone and not try to fix us
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