its been three years since i lost my wife to cancer and leaving me with our kid Tonia,she should be all i needed but it seems for the past years i still havent gotten over it,i get depressed,flash back and isolated,i took a theapy class and think its time i get out there and place that lady missing in my life,Am currently in service with the US military and i have a 10years old kid.....I too think she would need a mother too......PLEASE HELP i think posting this here will direct me to a lady who know how i feel and she'd understand