with having a LDR? I have been in one since February and find it so hard to leave him behind when i have to come home. I have visited him 3 times, and now i have my own place he is coming to see me more often too. He is studying (a mature student) at the moment after leaving his trade to change his career so its hard for him as he hasn't much money coming in and lives at home with his mum still. So i stay there if his mum goes away or otherwise its in a hotel for a few nights.

We have talked about the future and he is thinking of finishing his degree earlier to get a job next year so we can be together. I just miss him so much and it makes me ever so depressed leaving him.

I am going through a very tough time at the moment also, as i have left my husband for this guy. Noi one knows about him only a handful of people and i have yet to tell my family about him. Its all so hard and i wish i was easier. My man told me to think of it all like this, that we are planting acorns to grow shoots for our almighty roots. He is such a positive guy but im not and find it all so hard.

Hope some of you can understand what i am going through and can give me any advice.