its unbelievable how losing a partner can allow one to act crazy and make some life changing decisions that are not well thought about. I lost my husband in 2015 and was married 11mths later only to be separated within a 3months span. How do I cope with having not yet done grieving and facing a divorce which has cost me to lose everything I ever own and starting over with a 15 yr old.
Oh my! This is a sad story, but not unheard of. I lost a husband in 2010 and remarried a year later. It was a rough go at first, but with God's help we made it good. Then this one passed last December. Now I feel that I am grieving for two men, if that makes sense. Plus I guess you could add a third man on if you count the one I was attracted to recently who wouldn't even accept my friendship. He was not what I perceived him to be, but still, I don't handle rejection well. However, I guess I should be thankful to be spared more grief that he would most likely have caused for me had we gotten together. I would make that last husband pay the legal fees. I hope things get better. Pray, pray, pray...and be careful.