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I just found out a day ago that my husband has a son with another woman
And he is 43, same age as our 2nd daughter. I am full of hatred right now. We are both retired, he is 71 and I am 64. He also has COPD and lot of other health issues. I just don't know what to do, he won't talk about it. Should I tell our children they have a half brother . I feel like I want revenge, I want him to know how much I am hurting, I want him to hurt too. I think I am cried out for now, but can't eat or sleep, it hurts and I always feel sick to my stomach. Need some advice! No one to talk too, been thinking of telling my siblings, i know I would have support there. Thanks!
And he is 43, same age as our 2nd daughter. I am full of hatred right now. We are both retired, he is 71 and I am 64. He also has COPD and lot of other health issues. I just don't know what to do, he won't talk about it. Should I tell our children they have a half brother . I feel like I want revenge, I want him to know how much I am hurting, I want him to hurt too. I think I am cried out for now, but can't eat or sleep, it hurts and I always feel sick to my stomach. Need some advice! No one to talk too, been thinking of telling my siblings, i know I would have support there. Thanks!
Paws4It
Oh my gosh, help! You have to be torn apart inside. At this point in your marriage, you'd be hurting yourself to do anything rash, so try to find someone to talk this out with, to vent. We need to talk and cry and get it out before making any decisions... dont you think? And with a major heart ache like this, that is a lot of crying time.
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